I’m entering dangerous territory.
Dreams — and how they figure into our waking lives — fascinate me. I don’t remember which came first — my vibrant dream life or my wonder for that version of reality. But both have been with me since childhood.
What’s curious to me these days is lucid dreaming and predictive dreaming, both of which I seem to be getting better at.
The other night, for instance, I noticed I was in the middle of a super frightening nightmare, and I willed myself awake. Not bad, I thought, when I woke up in a sweat. Now how do I start teaching myself how to fly?
For the past year or so, I’ve occasionally (a few times a month) experienced deja vu during the day in which I am certain I dreamt the interaction already the night before. Nothing momentous; in fact, regular every day occurrences that have a particular interesting twist. Not just the regular drop off at my daughter’s preschool, for instance, but one in which her classmate starts to speak to me in Russian.
I’ve read that such predictive dreaming is, in fact, not uncommon. Famous physicist Russell Targ (most well-known for his work with the military on remote viewing) writes about his own experience with precognitive dreams “predicting” newspaper headlines that he’d then read the next day.
But here’s a peculiar phenomenon I haven’t come across yet in reading on the subject of dreams, and I’m wondering if any of you have: Sometimes I dream my Facebook feed before it happens.
I have 851 Facebook friends. I’m pretty well aware of the 50 or so who appear regularly in my feed. So that when I dream of someone far away — who is not present in my day-to-day interactions and who is not one of the regular 50 people who appear in my feed — and that person shows up in my Facebook feed the next day, I am … to say the least … startled. Like, “Hey you, weren’t you just randomly in my dream last night? What are you doing in my Facebook face?”
Is there an algorithm to explain that experience? I say that only half-facetiously. There probably IS an algorithm to explain that. (If so, please share it, and if possible, in graphic novel format, which is how I best understand geek.)
In addition to dreaming about someone the day before they show up in my feed, I have, on multiple occasions, been talking about something with my colleague at work during the lunch hour — something seemingly obscure — only to find the topic being explored in an article posted by one of my Facebook friends in my feed when I return from lunch. As if Facebook was eavesdropping on our conversation.
Is there an algorithm for that? For overhearing a discussion on, let’s say, the ecosystem of the gut after eating meat or milk? Is there an internet worm crawling from our ears, our minds, and back into “the system?”
I know that readers of this blog span the spectrum of futurists believing we already live in the Matrix to religious devotees who believe the Bible literally happened. (And I appreciate that diversity!)
So tell me: what do you think? Does this ever happen to you, too?
Is it more common than I think, this transmission from mind to physical matter (our computers) and back again?
Or am I naive to think of “the internet” as matter, at all? Isn’t it, too, mind?
6 thoughts on “Do your dreams predict your Facebook feed?”
Me too! I think this happens, when our wavelengths resonate with others at the same frequency. We all are interconnected in this amazing web of life.
It does. Not specific to Facebook, that I use only sporadically and for business purposes, but in every day life. I dream of someone, someone I haven’t seen in a while, and they get in touch, in some form or other, the next day. My mother is a “strong” dreamer, fairly used to predictive dreaming – some things utterly mundane, other a bit more serious. I like to think of it as being endowed with extra sensitivity.
First of all, this is brilliant: “If so, please share it, and if possible, in graphic novel format, which is how I best understand geek.” Love it!
I am definitely concerned that I and my Facebook feed have an otherworldly connection. Or at least, I was when I used it more frequently. My dreams, on the other hand, have become less and less memorable, but every now and then I too manage to wake myself from a bad one. It’s a good power to have!
Have you ever thought of an old friend you haven’t spoke to in a while, and then get a call or text from them? Or just randomly pick up your phone (even though you know that no one has called) and immediately get a call? I’ve had those happen a lot. I think electricity is a way of tunneling thought causing deja vu and coincidence. As far as Facebook, I watched an foreign indie film a few months back. At the end of the film there was a quote from a poem “the poison tree”. Got on facebook a few minutes later and bam, the poem was the first post. 🙂
I have experienced that kind of synchronicity for years! That experience with the poem would have blown me away, though!
Yeah, for a second I though the person who posted it was in my house, lol.